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What you are experiencing is universal. This is how we crush. I know it is impossible for you to picture yourself feeling this way about someone else, but you will. In fact, you will probably feel this way about a few people before it clicks in both directions. We canada goose outlet black friday are all just conductors of vibrating energy looking for mutual energy to connect with. Until that happens let your feelings teach you.

Notice what it is that you like about this kid. Learn from what you are feeling. See this crush as a workout for your heart. This is what love feels like. What qualities in this guy will you be looking for in a potential partner?

I know it is really hard to find big picture lessons in such a wrenchingly specific emotional whirlwind, but they are there. It not at all crazy to feel like you need a miracle. You may or may not get one, but right now all you can do is show this kid who you are and allow him to determine what you are going to mean to him.

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